Sg is small

This evening after work, I had coffee with J today and he was pouring out his relationship woes to me. I played devil's advocate for 2 hours non-stop. On top of helping him sort out his complicated issues, we chatted on our life's goal & blah... He was surprised that our conversation can go so deep. He was embarassed to admit that the 1st time he thought I'm just another 100% bimbo cos' I was modelling full time then. See J, I told you not to judge a book by its cover! I might not be intelligent but I'm surely not dumb. Haha! Alright, I won't blame you. Afterall you don't really know me till today. I shall give you the benefit of doubt. LOL! After M joined us later, we decided to keep our topics light, that's when J realised we have another common girl friend. This mutual friend has a notorious reputation at clubs already. She'll go picking up guys at club especially when she's drunk. Throwing herself at the guy she fancy, blah... I shall not go into explicit details. The digusting part is she will later come to me & claim that the guys tried to pick her up and ask her out, etc. Initially I ain't sure which side of the story to believe in. Till both of my guy friends who don't know each other has came asking/bitching to me about this girl & making nasty remarks. What are you trying to prove? I felt sad for the girl cos' at such young age, she has already destroyed her image & reputation. For guy to be a player, most people will just probably have an impression that he's either rich, handsome, smart or has good skills in bed. For a lady to be known as a player (sound nicer) or slut (sound really bad), it just meant that she's a "any-ride", a new term I learnt from L. Come on lah, SG is so small. Can you stop forcing others to see you in a bad light (or seriously desperate for love and attention)? What is it that you are trying to prove? The best is, stop telling the world you know so and so. I get irritated when people link you & I up. Honestly, I do feel abit ashamed to be associated with you. Not that I don't agree to what you do to ya life as that is your own business but I hate the part when I had to pretend that I'm your good friend when I sees you. Worse of all, stop copying my style/ words/ideas. You have no idea that people, especially guys are talking behind ya back? You are a little weird, dreaming and living in ya own world. People point out their mutual friends for a good reason, but after you stresses our mutual friends, I just hear additional horrible remarks about you. Yes you may be a girl and thinks all the guy likes you, but the truth is, they don't. I'm writing this post cos' I know you read my blog pretty often. Take my advise, if you wanna play. Keep it low (and safe). Be well...